
This past year has probably been so hectic
for you that you
have forgotten the whole concept of PLAY.
In this e-letter we look at the need to put some fun back into your life.
If you are planning to spend some time basking in the sun -
have you managed to find the right costume?
Read on for some valuable tips on finding the perfect swimming attire.
This month we cover the
A & C of Impression Management
All in a Day’s Play!
·
Learn to have fun again
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Off to Play I go
Costume Choices
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Minimize Swimwear Trauma
·
What suits your body shape?
·
Swimwear trends

On behalf of myself and my team we would
like to thank you for making 2005 inspiring, stimulating and
challenging! We feel blessed to have been involved with yourself personally as
well as your company. We wish you a peaceful and joyful festive season. In 2006
standby to be wowed with more fresh initiatives and fantastic
e-letter tips!
With all our love

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All in a Day’s Play!
Learn to have fun again

All work and no fun make Jack and Jill a
very dull couple indeed! The number 1 regret people have when they look back on
their lives, is that they took it too seriously. What’s missing for so many
people is PLAY, the ability to have fun. Playing is not reserved only for
children Its what keeps us young at heart, passionate in our work and allows
our relationships with others to thrive and grow. When we do take time to relax
and enjoy life, we are consumed with guilt that we are wasting time and should
be doing something more constructive. We need to realise that we cannot afford
not to play.If we constantly suppress our natural and instinctive tendency to
have fun - it can manifest in unhealthy ways eg having an affair, using drugs,
eating or shopping compulsively. We need to constantly remind ourselves what
play is, then actively choose to do it.
“Playing is our inner joy, outwardly expressed”
Davis Kessler
Work and play needn’t be separate
activities, finding enjoyment in your daily slog helps you get through the day.
Limit how much work infiltrates your playtime eg the over use of cell phones –
we walk and talk, eat and talk, relax and keep talking. Constant availability
has become a liability. When you do play do it for pure pleasure, not for any
gain. You don’t have to always beat your squash partner. Your sewing skills
don’t need to be boutique perfect. If you have too many expectations and goals
- you will change an activity you love into a chore. Having fun requires no
agenda, apart from providing you with pleasure. So what if for the next hour
you just lie on the grass and watch the clouds make patterns in the sky?
Playtime can be solitary, involve friends or loved ones, may even be time spent
with a favourite pet, but it must take you away from life’s seriousness.
And off to Play I go …
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Read the comics before the financial
indicators
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Instead of your normal healthy muesli
have a bowl with something luridly coloured, preferably out of a packet that
includes a toy!
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Have to wear a conservative suit all
week? Buy yourself some fun underwear to wear underneath
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Hold a games party – anything from
Monopoly to 30 Seconds. Have a murder party and make everyone dress up
·
Be more spontaneous – say “Yes” to
invitations you may have previously felt too busy to accept
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Don’t wait for conventional holidays to
celebrate – have a 17th day of the month party. Why? Just because …
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Bring out the good glasses and china for
your family to eat off
·
Make mud pies in the garden – even if
you don’t have children
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Buy chocolate cake mix. Mix and eat raw!
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Build a kite, a model aeroplane and then
try and make it fly
Spend time with those you care about,
but remember time just for you. To do what you want, when you want to, for
whatever reason. Nothing can slow down the aging process but if we keep playing
we will remain forever young inside.
Forgot how to play and
balance your life to prevent burnout?
The Superwoman
Syndrome
is specifically for the woman who is trying to deal with her multi–faceted
roles, whilst maintaining her sanity!
A Work in Progress
is for all those
trying to maintain their head above water –
we will provide strategies for coping with today's harsh realities.
For more information contact us on:
Tel: (011) 467 5126
Cell: 082 895 7924
email: prof–imp@mweb.co.za
Costume Choices
The moment of truth has arrived. Are the
past few months of not going to gym showing? Has the fad grape diet not worked?
We all hold our breath when swimsuit weather arrives. Found the ideal costume?
Most of us are still searching for that perfect match!
Minimize Swimwear Trauma

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Forget the size on the label. It must
feel and look good on you no matter what the numbers say
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If choosing a two piece, choose a brand
that sells tops and bottoms separately – very few of us are perfectly balanced
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Ask what you want your costume to do.
Serious laps can’t be done in a string bikini, posing requires something little
rather than something too athletic
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Move around in your costume to make sure
you don’t fall out of it or need to spend your life rearranging it
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Choose a fabric that doesn’t take
forever to dry (not crochet!) drying your costume in the sun will shorten its
life as elastic and lycra perish
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Be consoled you will look a whole lot
better in blinding sunlight than you do in the unforgiving lights of the stores
changing rooms
What really suits your body shape?
Minimize a Big Tummy
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Buy a one piece costume with a
reinforced tummy panel
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Dark colours are more slimming, however
if you are very fair they can look too harsh, rather try dark brown or a strong
blue
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Look for a style with shirring or
gathers at the waist to soften tummy bulge
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For a sexier silhouette find a style
that is cut high at the front and low at the back or has back detail
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In a two piece choose a bottom that sits
higher on the hip to flatten tummy
·
Tankini’s work well but must not be too
tight
Minimize Large Breasts
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Be realistic on how much support you
need. Triangular tops flatten at best and at worst large breast hang out from
below
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Athletic tops flatten yes, but also give
the effect of a unibreast
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Look for an under wired style, but not
the padded type-bit old ladyfish
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Halter neck tops give the best support
especially when the straps are thicker. A broad back strap will give you additional
support. String straps will cut into your shoulders
Minimize Large Hips
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A medium high leg cut is most flattering
rather than a too high cut
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Wear a brightly coloured or patterned
top to draw attention away from the hips
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Boy shorts in theory should work, as
they do cover more. However because they are cut straight across they make hips
and bum look bigger
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Vertical stripes or a chevron pattern
will slim
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Cover hips with a sarong, pareo or hot
pants in a darker colour
Minimize a Wide Waist
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Choose a one piece style with cut
out waist or belted detail to create the illusion of a waist
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Vertical stripes will make you appear
like a block. Choose a chevron pattern or a pattern at an angle
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Geometric patterns are better than
curved ones
Minimize a Short Upper Body
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A one piece elongates the body
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Go for a lower cut leg to lengthen your
frame
Enhance a Small Bust
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A lighter or patterned top with a little
extra padding will help make you look a little fuller
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Halter tops will pull in what cleavage
you have giving you more shape
For the Men
Unless you have a body like Ryk
Neethling’s please abandon the Speedo. No male over the age of 10 should be
allowed to wear one; they leave too little to the imagination! Board shorts,
baggies even the straight cut trunks are preferable.
Swimwear Trends

·
Lots of little bikinis in all colours
and patterns from animal prints, to tie dye, to stripes are in
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Costumes are like the clothes
embellished with sequins, beads, bone and tassels
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Colours range from metallic to bright
acid colours
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Don’t despair if you do not have the
perfect body the shops are filled with beautiful cover ups. Use soft kaftan
tops, scarves and sarongs to enhance your costume and help cover up some of
your more wobbly bits
·
Don’t forget the self tanner. Brown flab
looks a whole bunch more appetising than the white variety
In next month´s E–letter we look at:
Are you really happy at work?
·
Tell-tell signs that tell you when to call
it quits
Body Language for Business
Professional Impressions would like to
credit the following for information and images used in this article:
Life Lessons – Elisabeth Kubler - Ross and David Keesler
Romancing the Ordinary
– Sarah Ban Breathnach
Femina – November 2005
Cosmopolitan – November 2005
Fair Lady – November 2005
Weighless Magazine
– August/September 2005
The Lucky Shopping Manual
– Kim France and Andrea Linett
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